ASSESSING THE IMPACT OF PREMARITAL COUNSELING AND ITS EFFECT ON CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE
ABSTRACT
This research sought to assess the impact of premarital counseling and its effect on Christian marriage in Christ Apostolic Church Oke-Gboluwaga District Headquarters, Big Joe Ore, Ondo-State. To achieve this objective, four research questions and one research hypotheses were formulated to guide the study. The data was collected from primary sources. The primary data were collected with the help of a well-structured questionnaire of two sections administered to intended couples in using Christ Apostolic Church Oke-Gboluwaga District Headquarters, Big Joe Ore, Ondo-State. The collected data were analyzed with tables and simple percentages to analyze the research questions while Chi-square statistical tool was used to test research hypotheses. The study reveals that there are benefits of premarital counseling on Christian marriage in Christ Apostolic Church Oke-Gboluwaga District Headquarters, Big Joe Ore, Ondo-State. The study concluded with some recommendations that pastors should make the premarital counseling program compulsory for the Christians intending couples to reduce the rate of marriage divorce that is rampant in some Christian marriages today and in the society. The researcher also recommended that churches should provide a marriage committee in their churches to make necessary investigations about the intending couples before joining them together.
TABLE OF CONTENT
Title page
Approval page
Dedication
Acknowledgment
Abstract
Table of content
CHAPTER ONE
INTRODUCTION
1.1 Background of the study
1.2 Statement of Problem
1.3 The Purpose of the Study
1.4 The Significance of the Study
1.5 Delimitation of the Study
1.6 Research Procedure
1.7 Limitation to the Study
1.8 Definition of terms
CHAPTER TWO
REVIEW OF RELATED LITERATURE
2.0 Introduction
2.2 CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE
2.3 MARITAL CONFLICTS
2.4 PREMARITAL BIBLICAL COUNSELLING
2.4.1 BIBLE AND PREMARITAL COUNSELING
2.4.2 BIBLE EXAMPLES OF COUNSELLING INDIVIDUALS
2.5 PREMARITAL COUNSELING
2.5.1 THE MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR
2.6 EFFECTS OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELLING IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGES
2.6.1 EFFECTS OF MARRIAGE COUNSELLING
2.7 REVIEW OF EMPIRICAL STUDIES
2.8 THEORETICAL FRAMEWORK
2.8.1 Solution Focused Therapy Theory
2.8.2 Gottman Theory of Relationship Stability
CHAPTER THREE
RESEARCH METHODOLOGY
3.1 Research Design
3.2 Sources of Data Collection
3.3 Population of the Study
3.4 Sample and Sampling Procedure
3.5 Instrument for Data Collection
3.6 Validation of the Research Instrument
3.7 Method of Data Analysis
CHAPTER FOUR
PRESENTATION ANALYSIS INTERPRETATION OF DATA
4.1 Introduction
4.2 Answers to Research Questions
4.3 Result Presentation/Data Analysis
CHAPTER FIVE
SUMMARY CONCLUSION AND RECOMMENDATION
5.1 Introduction
5.2 Summary
5.3 Conclusion
5.4 Recommendations
References
Appendix
CHAPTER ONE
INTRODUCTION
1.1 Background to the Study
Marriage is noted as the oldest institution on the planet earth. It was divinely established and instituted in the Garden of Eden (Gen 2:24) by God Himself, and affirmed by Jesus to be a long life union between a man and a woman in loving companion and for the purpose of fulfilling an innate need for community and procreation. Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, and their children, and between them and their in-laws. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman who makes a permanent and exclusive commitment to each other of the type that is naturally (inherently) fulfilled by bearing and rearing children together
Marriage is a covenant by which a man and a woman establish between themselves life partnership which nature is pioneered toward the good of the spouses, procreation and education of offspring.
Then, the purpose of marriage is unity, complimentary and oneness. Nevertheless, looking in depth to what obtains today; the researcher discovered that some of the Christian homes are presently in chaos and some at the verge of divorce while some are already experiencing divorce just because they neglected premarital counseling before entering into marriage. In addition, the researcher also noticed that 40% out of 100% of Christian marriages today collapse within three (3) or four (4) months after the wedding, which was as a result of lack of exposure to premarital counseling, that is why the majority of them find themselves in this marital conflicts. However, the remaining 60% are enjoying their marriages because of the important steps they took about premarital counseling before they entered into marriage. Onyango stated that most homes or marriages of today are far from good. Rather, they are bearable, tolerable or endurable. He observed later, that unmarried men and women are not receiving information as to what marriage is all about. He continued by saying that they entered marriage as green people without prior knowledge at all, which has always been the basis for divorce. Therefore, this study intends to look into assessing the impact of premarital counseling and its effect on Christian marriage.
1.2 Statement of the Problem
Looking at what is happening in the society and in some of Christian marriages, it was discovered that some marriages have led to divorce and face numerous marital conflicts because most of the couples did not seek premarital counseling before entering into marriage. This means that the issue of premarital counseling is a phenomenon that every couple which intends to have a lasting home should not undermine because, it is important and it determines how a marriage will look like either good or bad. The researcher discovered also, that some church weddings do scatter within three or two months after wedding, resulting no or inadequate pre-marital counseling. Thus, this work aims at answering the following questions:
- Does beliefs and religious practices have any significant relationship on marriage?
- Are there effects of pre-marital counseling on Christian marriage?
- Does pre-marital counseling positively influence Christian marriage in Christ Apostolic Church Oke-Gboluwaga District Headquarters Big Joe Ore, Ondo-State?
- What is the purpose of pre-marital counseling?
1.3 The Purpose of the Study
The purposes of this study are as follow:
- To explain and discuss the benefits of premarital counseling
- To point out some challenges of marriage
- To help the intended couples in the church to ensure a strong, healthy, and lasting relationship.
- To prepare intended couples in the church for the marriage and not just the wedding day.
- To offer intended couples in the church the insight and understanding into their own temperament
- To help the intended couples in the church in order to build a solid biblical foundation for marriage.
- To incite zeal in ministers and counselors on the task of pre-marital counseling
- To inform couples in the church how to respond when issues arise
- It allows the couples in the church to view the matrimonial road before entering the course.
1.4 The Significance of the Study
The research will be useful to the following people:
- Ministers or Pastors who crave for a better premarital counseling as parts of their obligatory duties
- It will help young men and women who are preparing for marriage to understand some necessary things they needed to know before entering into marriage.
- Christian counselors in the churches would be able to put more effort in the area of premarital counseling
- It will help Christ Apostolic Church Oke-Gboluwaga District Headquarters Big Joe Ore, Ondo-State in solving marital problems and reduce the issues of divorce that are common in some Christian marriages today.
1.5 Delimitation of the Study
The scope of the study is limited to Christ Apostolic Church Oke-Gboluwaga District Headquarters, Big Joe Ore, Ondo-State as a case study. It is based on premarital counseling program and its benefit to the church and the intended couples.
1.6 Research Procedure
This research is historical, it is based on library work and field research. A detailed survey of the Bible, commentaries, Encyclopedia, Journal, books, internet, and dictionaries was carried out in LIFE Theological Seminary library Ikorodu, Lagos.
1.7 Limitation to the Study
The researcher was challenged by the inability of respondents to meet up with deadlines and submission of the questionnaire. The interviewer could not meet up the scheduled appointment which led to delay in its collation. However, the available data were used to present a valid work.
1.8 Definition of Terms
For the purpose of this research work, the following terms will be defined as follows:
Christian: A Christian is simply someone who follows Jesus, who calls upon Jesus Christ as his or her Lord as well as Savior (Rom. 10:9).
Christian Marriage: A Christian Marriage is when a marriage union takes place between two Bible-believing Christians who truly want to serve the Lord together.
Christ Apostolic Church: The church is distinctly an indigenous African Church by its structure belief and practices; it is an independent Pentecostal church.
Counseling: It is the advice and support that is given to people to help them deal with problems, make important decisions, etc.
Impact: Is a change that results when something is done or happens: an event, condition, or state of affairs that is produced by a cause.
Marriage: Marriage is the institution whereby men and women are joined in a special kind of social and legal dependence for the purpose of finding and maintaining a family.
Premarital: Something that is occurring before Marriage
Premarital Counseling: Premarital counseling is best defined as knowledge and skills-based training procedure, which aims at providing couples with information on ways to improve their relationship once they are married.
Role: A role is a set of connected behaviors, rights, obligations, beliefs, and norms as conceptualized by people in a social situation.
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